The “Secret of Sex Transmutation” chapter of THINK AND GROW RICH suggests that you take the same “energy” invested in thinking or engaging in sex and apply it to your material dreams. That the the mingled emotions of faith, love, and sex intensifies human thought to its highest level, and that men and women who achieve at the highest levels also tend to have very sexual natures, which is highly related to their drive, ambition, creativity, and accomplishment.
“The Art of Erotic Intelligence” takes this idea and runs with it. Amara Charles has studied sexual magic from multiple traditions, and taught workshops in this challenging—and delicious—discipline around the world. The kind of lady who will literally climb mountains in Tibet to spend a few hours with the right teacher. Very much a kindred spirit.
I knew I could not write such a course on my own. Why? Well...
1) While I’ve studied the disciplines, I don’t “live there.” I have the knowledge in my body and unconscious, but lack the languaging, and conceptual mastery to teach.
2) I’m kind of a guy. That means that no matter what I do, I’m going to see things from a Yang perspective first. I can ignore this, or over-compensate, but I can’t simply relax and flow without skewing perspective. I NEEDED that feminine energy to complete the balance.
Amara and I clashed for years on what this or that aspect of this concept meant, or could be or should be applied. But ultimately, we realized that the very lack of total agreement was no weakness, but rather a strength. That we were actually representing, in every “spirited discussion”, the very difference in perspectives that has deviled (and enlivened) the relationships between men and women through history. But it also represents the difficulty we have mastering communication within ourselves. The Left-Brain/Right-Brain split. The Parent-Child split (and flip a coin as to which is which. No pejoratives implied!) The Healer-Warrior, or Artist-Engineer, Explorer and Homemaker, Flesh and Spirit, or Heart and Head, or Creator and Banker, or…or…
If you have experienced imbalance in any of these arenas. If you suffer writer’s block, can’t quite figure out how to get paid for the work you do, lack drive and motivation, keep getting dumped into the “friend” category in relationships, can’t access your intuitive or calculating sides, “need” the love and approval of others, can’t “understand the opposite sex” or satisfy your sexual hungers ethically and without masks or deception, or any number of other manifestations of imbalance between the “male” and female” aspects of their inner or outer lives…then “The Art of Erotic Intelligence” is for you.
Now, Amara is in an ecstatic relationship with her partner Shyena, so this isn’t a matter of heterosexuality. That duality goes WAY beyond mere physical gender. The male and female aspects aren’t like livers and kidneys—they don’t precisely exist outside of human perspective. But they are superb metaphors for the internal world, as well as relating to the joining together of human beings in loving, sexual relationships, social or commercial relationships.
In Tantra yoga, the model of human evolution includes the “chakra” system, where the balance of male and female frees “energy” to rise to the next level and confront the next set of challenges. In life, balancing your creative/editing, long term/short term planning or fear/love drives can create chaos, stagnation, and unbelievable frustration. While the techniques for accessing the “left brain” aspects can be written and described easily, the “right brain” flow state aspects are more elusive, more magical, and seem esoteric or even mystical to those stuck in the linear mode.
It doesn’t have to be that way. Men and women can have both. It is your heritage and strength. The “Art of Erotic Intelligence” is pretty close to unique, a first step to blending these two arenas in a way I’ve never seen, and that, if you actually hear what is being said, and PUT IT INTO YOUR BODY by performing the exercises (which are unbelievable fun!) you will, in thirty days, grasp a truth of our existence that cannot quite be put into words.
For just three more days, this breakthrough course is available at a reduced price, and with special incentive. If any of what I have said speaks to you, this may be what you have always sought…a hunger you couldn’t quite define, let alone satisfy.
Passion is power.
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Posted by Steven Barnes at 4:28 AM