I’m doing the last two chunks of “the Secret Formula” today, because
our DANGER WORD campaign ends tomorrow at 12 noon PST. Again: we’ve
raised our basic funds, and our movie is happening! But if you want to
participate in this historic event, a little time remains, and we
genuinely wanted to make a “last call”.
We’ve discussed
“gratitude” and “goals” and either of these subjects could be addressed
for years. We’re just skimming over the surface, but what a surface it
is!
Remember: this is about how to create MAGIC, by any
reasonable definition, and quite a few un-reasonable ones. It is also
about what is missing from most people’s view of “The Secret.”
All right. We have two pieces left: Faith and Constant Action.
1)
Faith. In the Hero’s Journey, “Faith” gets you through the Dark Night
of the Soul, the inevitable “crash and burn” phase of a project. The
Dark Night is analogous to the 11th rep of a 12-rep weight lifting set,
when you are SURE that you’ve got nothing left. But if you are
exhausted by 11, what rep is it that really gives you the growth?
That’s
right. 13. And you won’t get there unless you have a coach, a
trainer, a buddy, or a voice in your head that says: “yes, it feels like
you’ve got nothing left…but that feeling is a lie.”
And you
gut it out. And that 13th rep sends a message to your hind brain that
you must grow.The body follows the mind. You have to BELIEVE that you
can, you should, you MUST. Believe that your actions are in alignment
with your values. That they represent mutual benefit and welfare. That
everyone involved will grow from this action. It hurts no one, benefits
everyone.
That means faith in:
1) Yourself. I
knew I could do this. I’ve done wonderful things in the past. And I
encouraged everyone on the call to remember how wonderful THEY are.
2)
Our companions. As a team, we’d come so far, so quickly. Done so
much. We could look around the “room” and see that we all believed,
we had track records, we were bringing everything we had to the game.
Putting all our cards on the table. By any metaphor you choose, we had
every right to believe in each other. WE CAN DO THIS!
3) A
higher power. God, faith, “the universe”, Gaia, the Universal
Pattern, fate…I don’t care. In my experience, the person who works
only for themselves lacks the power of someone who strives to create
value that goes beyond his own life, his own family. His own ego. Ego
crumbles under the pressure of transformation. What remains after that
pressure “breaks” you is a deeper sense of who and what you are, what
you are committed to, what ultimate values you embrace.
Every action in your life should, optimally, be some version of asking the question “who am I?” and “what is true?”
I
try very hard to live my life so that if the people around me could
read my mind, they would be MORE at ease, more confident in my decisions
and actions, rather than less. That means to align myself with
whatever might be called “the ethical structure of the universe.”
Or…the mind and heart of God.
Or…spiritual
gravitation. So many ways to put it. Almost everyone has some sense
of the universe having a pattern that evades conscious thought. Faith
has to do with those patterns. And a totally disproportionate
percentage of the highest-performing people I’ve known have such a
sense. And that implies to me that, whether there is such a pattern,
such a force, such a being or not…IT IS AN EXTREMELY USEFUL BELIEF.
Get
that? So in the call, what we had to do was see how what we are doing
goes beyond us. Our families. We are creating a story we genuinely
consider inspiring and valuable.
Creating a document of HOW to
create a small film. How to crowd-fund. How to build a “family” to
create things you cannot create by yourself, with a commitment to
sharing.
That we were publicly documenting the entire process.
That
we were allowing people to invest their love, frustration,
creativity…whatever they chose to invest in the creation of something
they felt they wanted, needed, and cared about deeply…or just wanted to
cheer us on from the stands! It wasn’t about “us.” It was about ALL of
us.
That makes it all different.
Once
we had the long view, it is easier to believe that if we are serving a
function in the world, and can communicate our value, that the world
will support us if we have the self-love to demand to be treated with
respect. To lead by example.
Faith. In our project, ourselves, each other, and the community we are committed to serving.
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The
last step was the step I see most often missing from those who speak of
“The Secret.” And that is Constant Action. Folks—if your goal and
faith isn’t powerful enough to change your behavior, on what basis do
you believe the universe will mystically respond to you? Are you
kidding?
The bad news is that your ship isn’t coming in.
The good news is that you can row out to meet it.
We
had to define CLEARLY what we needed to do to finish the project. What
each of us could and must do to make it happen. What action we needed
to take TODAY, and then tomorrow, and then the next day, to make it
happen. What we were committed to. How we would keep ourselves on
track.
And then…see ourselves succeeding. Arriving at film
festivals. Happy audiences. Thrilled fans. Eager investors for a
feature film.
Can we be sure any of this would happen? No!
Could we celebrate anyway? Hell, yes! Why? Because we had done
everything humanly possible. We had asked for nothing but the chance to
work our butts off. Because we had “chunked down” the process until
the component pieces were small enough that WE COULD DO IT OURSELVES.
At
every step, we refused to turn ourselve into little Orphan Olivers,
holding our begging bowls to the universe saying: “please, sir, I want
some more.”
No. With joy, we’d bared our teeth and said: “if
it’s to be, it’s up to me.” We formed a tribe. Did a war dance, and
then went out to die trying, with a smile.
(I ask you to
remember: when you don’t have a job, you can’t get a job. Until you’ve
got one. Then the phone mysteriously rings with offers. When you don’t
have a lover, you can’t get one. Until you’ve got one. And then…the
phone mysteriously rings with offers. And the unifying principle is..?)
And you know what happened:
To
recap briefly, we needed to raise 12,500 for post production. We’d
only raised 2500.00 with 21 days to go. We went over the budget with a
micrometer and realized that, with only 1800.00, we could produce a
rough cut we could use to raise the rest of the money by targeting
foundations and big-ticket donors.
THE CALL ENDED AT 1:10
EST. BY 1:30 EST, we had a notification from Indiegogo that we had a
FIVE THOUSAND DOLLAR donor. This “crashed the system” at Indiegogo,
and they went into “credit card fraud” mode, certain something was
wrong. This was FIVE TIMES the largest donation we’d received up until
this time!
It took tons of emails, phone calls and
strategizing to figure out how to get our money out of the system, but
five nail-biting days later we not only had that donation, but one from
this angel’s mother as well, for ANOTHER five thousand dollars!
We
were flabbergasted. All we had to do was be totally focused (goal),
have faith, take massive action, and feel damned grateful for what we
already had…and the universe opened the doors.
Now, this was
such an amazing parallel to the precise way I found my soulmate, and the
way I earned my fourth degree black belt, that it hit the “Trifecta” of
body, mind, and spirit/emotions. This is foundational. This is big
enough for me to stop, say “what the @#$$?” and immediately write this
up and publish.
Yeah, it’s “magic.” But the scientific
method, that thing that rules 1/2 of my head (the other half is shaman.
Yeah, I know it. Sue me.) says that you observe a phenomenon,
postulate a theory to explain it, formulate an experiment to test the
theory, and if you like the results, publish so that others can try it
as well.
These last few essays represent “publication.”
If you have questions, PLEASE ask them. If you’ve found this to be of use, please share with your friends.
And
if it is fascinating, and you want a recap of the entire process, get
yours as part of our “Seven Dollars or Free” program at:
http://www.diamondhour.com/SecretFormula.en.html
Namaste,
Steve
www.diamondhour.com
www.dangerword.com
Sunday, July 28, 2013
The "DANGER WORD" miracle: Faith and Action
Posted by Steven Barnes at 6:27 AM
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