The Terminator of love Arnold Schwarzenegger, whatever one may think of his politics, movies, or personal life, had a formula he believed was responsible for his success: 1) Have clearer goalsthan anyone else. 2) Believe in yourself more than anyone else 3) Work harder than anyone else. Considering that he was massively successful in film, sports, real estate, publishing, and politics it would seem reasonable to extract the positive aspects of his philosophy and... then examine what may have gone wrong. All evidence suggests that Arnold is not only a physical marvel but simply insanely sexual, and that that behavior may be in conflict with his conservative religious and political beliefs. Remember what we said yesterday, that if your goals, beliefs, values and emotional anchors are not aligned, you will damage yourself? Well, as you release more power into your life (increasing energy and motivation), and simultaneously release your brakes (increasing clarity and supportive beliefs) it is like souping-up a car engine. The faster the car the more likely it is to drive only on a carefully maintained track, or an empty salt flat. As you pick up "speed" in your life, you have to get your "speed bumps" out of the way. What if Arnold had kept that sexual energy safely locked into his relationship with Maria? Or if they had had formal agreements about its use in their lives? Or even if he had been sensible enough to use proper contraception? Or not to engage sexually with household staff (a no brainer!) Or how about...simply being honest? The exact same energy that motivates us can destroy us. On an instinctive level we understand this, and many men and women avoid expressing their beauty and power, literally avoid pursuing their dreams for fear they will somehow bring pain into their lives. Our goal has to be to help you increase your power in a manner that SERVES your life rather than damaging it. 1) Can you envision what you want in life? See it, taste it, "touch" it, and hear it? 2) Rewrite your goals daily, a ritual that helps to remind you why you must take continuous action to reach your dreams. 3) Be certain that that increase in fitness, success, wealth, knowledge and pleasure serves both you, your relationships, and the community around you. 4) Make your primary relationship your most powerful "mastermind" partnership. Remember: love isn't two people looking at each other. It is two people looking in the same direction. Steve www.diamondhour.com (p.s.--the fear of success is as powerful as the fear of failure! You'll need to whip both to access your true power and potential!)
Friday, February 24, 2012
The Terminator of love
Posted by Steven Barnes at 5:58 AM
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