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Excellent clarification. As I tried to say...Steve<br /><br />Excellent clarification. As I tried to say, I'm OK with the idea that one can control (or at least largely control -- I draw the line at some biochemical imbalances that I believe require pharmaceutical assistance, whether natural or manmade) one's response to external events. My problem was with the idea that one can fully control external events.Evan Robinsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10515721416940209858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-62094026023503677572010-01-26T08:27:18.470-08:002010-01-26T08:27:18.470-08:00By the way: by "garbage bags" I mean tha...By the way: by "garbage bags" I mean that they dump their negative, unprocessed emotions into their bodies and seal it away. To lose that weight they would have to deal with the pain, and that often feels like death. I will NOT be a party to denial about this. Regardless of what people say, I will keep pointing the way to the door. Period.Steven Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13630529492355131777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-8775806202431320152010-01-26T08:23:08.143-08:002010-01-26T08:23:08.143-08:00Evan: I am responsible for what I said, not other ...Evan: I am responsible for what I said, not other comments by other people that are somewhat similar. As for the rape...this one is hard, but I will tell you what Dawn Callan, one of the most powerful women, and finest teachers of martial wisdom I have ever known said to me. Responsibility is the ability to respond. The hardest thing she had to do to help women heal is teach them to take RESPONSIBILITY for their lives. Not guilt, blame, or shame. But to have the belief that they can prevent such horror from happening again. There are two extremes: "I can't control anything" and "I can control everything." The middle ground is "I can control my own perceptions and reactions. My actions have a powerful effect on my existence. I become what I think about." I have known countless people who have turned their lives around with this attitude. It is the door to power. Remember: NOT guilt, blame, or shame. If these things are tangled up, it is the responsibility of a mature, adult individual to untangle it.Steven Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13630529492355131777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-41573361296835226352010-01-26T08:20:49.438-08:002010-01-26T08:20:49.438-08:00Marco:
I really appreciate your taking the time t...Marco: <br />I really appreciate your taking the time to give such a detailed yet sensitive (no words such as "garbage pail," for instance) description of SF cons you have attended. Even though I am not terribly surprised, the extent of the problem, both in individuals and as a group, causes me great dismay. I am happy to know that you yourself are doing well. <br /><br />Steve:<br />After reading Marco's post, considering just how many cons you have no doubt attended,and especially considering your intense interest in body-mind-spirit integration, I can certainly underststand your distress over what you see there. It must be very difficult and you do have my sympathy. <br /><br />Sorry for the crack about grammar.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12964199403708700309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-83836154287752590682010-01-26T08:17:54.797-08:002010-01-26T08:17:54.797-08:00Jan: unfair I may seem, but it is from my POV accu...Jan: unfair I may seem, but it is from my POV accurate reportage that people who spend their lives immersed in fantasy are more likely than average to be avoiding real life. I've been around the field for forty years, and have the right to an informed opinion. There is simply a HUGE amount of damage there. Sweet, smart, good people...with serious wounds. I kept my mouth shut for years, and watched people die. I won't do that any more. Anyone who wants a way out of that box can find it, but they have to be willing to look at the truth.Steven Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13630529492355131777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-77624614599091701472010-01-26T08:14:57.987-08:002010-01-26T08:14:57.987-08:00For home exercise, I would suggest starting with t...For home exercise, I would suggest starting with the FIVE TIBETANS--Google the term. Once you have basic fitness, I strongly suggest Coach Sonnon's material, available at rmaxinternational.comSteven Barneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13630529492355131777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-48117928625008528502010-01-26T07:25:03.298-08:002010-01-26T07:25:03.298-08:00My concern with the definition of awake as "a...My concern with the definition of awake as "aware that their actions and perceptions are creating their reality" is that it sounds suspiciously like "everything bad that happens to you is your own fault".<br /><br />I've run into that attitude a lot among the more fluffy-bunny neopagans, and the idea that (for example) a 16 year old girl who was forcibly abducted from the local mall and raped "created her own reality" is more than a little bit creepy.<br /><br />I can live with the idea that she has some control (I will question whether she has total control) over her response to her environment.<br /><br />If you honestly think that people create their own realities (even some limited subset of Awakened people), I suggest an experiment: Create a reality in which you (the Awakened) can levitate. In public. Verified by a competent scientist and a competent magician.Evan Robinsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10515721416940209858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-62359334065719531292010-01-25T23:26:20.457-08:002010-01-25T23:26:20.457-08:00Jan,
I've been to more SF cons than I can rem...Jan,<br /><br />I've been to more SF cons than I can remember. Steve is right. And he is not referring to solitary SF readers, but habitual con-goers. There is clearly a much higher than average number of fans (or, fen, if you prefer the popular jargon of fandom) than in the wider U.S. population who are grossly obese, usually with incredibly poor diets, and terribly out of touch with their own bodies. A lack of basic hygiene is also not at all unusual with such fen. Poor grooming skills often accompanies such a package. <br /><br />An exceptionally large number of fen also live so inside their own heads and/or hold on to so much emotional damage that they can't be successful in romance - I used to be more than bit like that, by the way, but many fen beat me by light-years in that area of disfunction. There is also a massive overlap between the fen who are badly out of touch with their bodies and those who lack the ability to honestly connect with others (and themselves) on an emotional level. <br /><br />I love cons, and go to at least one a year, but the problem is there in our community. I usually avoid the ice cream socials and other events that highlight an easy opportunity for gluttony, because watching lots of grossly fat people destroying themselves by inches is painful. Especially when so many fen limp in on canes or arrive at such events in motorized wheelchairs - and make sure to eat second, and thirds if they can get them. It is even more difficult to watch this because I have fought so hard to overcome my own baggage. By your own admission, you have never been to any of these cons. I know exactly what Steve is talking about. <br /><br />MarcoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-72282168744981188372010-01-25T21:02:38.141-08:002010-01-25T21:02:38.141-08:00".. I'll give three definitions from one ...".. I'll give three definitions from one older person's point of view.."<br /><br />These appear to be "minimal" definitions,i.e. the bare essentials to avoid incapacity, separation, or destitution. IMHO, progress and fulfillment demand "maximal" definitions.<br /><br />1.Physical Fitness: Building maximum strength and stamina and a seductive physique.<br /><br />2.A Great Relationship: Romantic partners who revel in each other emotionally, sexually, intellectually. <br /><br />3.Financially Successful: To be so prosperous AND prudent in managing funds that fears of shortage or destitution are banished, and to able able to use the resulting disposable income for personal enrichment. <br /><br />Advancing years should not dictate making due. Old or young, the goal should be excellence.Ethiopian_Infidelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03332794812978904247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-18862318973321990752010-01-25T18:14:52.024-08:002010-01-25T18:14:52.024-08:00Since the title of this post is definitions I'...Since the title of this post is definitions I'll give three definitions from one older person's point of view.<br /><br />1) Physical Fitness: Not being dead or in a nursing home.<br /><br />2) A Great Relationship: My partner not being dead or in a nursing home.<br /><br />3) Financially Successful: Not running out of money before my partner and I are both dead.Marty Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06465745755940914756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-36964310854022239232010-01-25T17:14:59.774-08:002010-01-25T17:14:59.774-08:00Steven,
"It is totally possible to be brill...Steven, <br /><br />"It is totally possible to be brilliantly intelligent and Asleep. Science fiction conventions have a high percentage of such people, for instance." <br /><br />This statement gave me pause. It strikes me as a rather sweeping and unfair conclusion, unless, that is, you took a poll. What is a "high percentage" and how is it that you know the lack of awakeness in this category of people. You go on to describe results of nonawakeness. <br /><br />I really don't care if this is your opinion of most of your fans, but there is a good chance that these individuals, especially your fans, might visit your blog, where they will learn that you label their lives tragic and refer to their bodies as garbage pails. Perhaps you could voice this particular type of opinion with those who are likely to share it and not with those who might be hurt. <br /><br />I've never been to a convention, but I have always loved science fiction. I practice Buddhism, which teaches compassion above all. It also teaches nonattachment to things and outcomes, including the perfect body, perfect income, and so forth. I have written something of my circumstances to you elsewhere, and I am sorry that you likely consider my life tragic, but I am full of laughter and hope.<br /><br />(BTW,it's "...FAR smarter than I.")Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12964199403708700309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-12951540696932903722010-01-25T16:58:18.778-08:002010-01-25T16:58:18.778-08:00The truth waits for eyes unclouded by longing ...The truth waits for eyes unclouded by longing ...Steve Perryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12079658447270792228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9339191.post-9170755399079343692010-01-25T12:15:54.020-08:002010-01-25T12:15:54.020-08:00hey steve
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